Codependency
A Little Help From My Friends!!
Three weeks ago I made a tough decision to protect my sobriety; I quit my job! After working at a local restaurant for over a year, loving dearly my position as a cook, addiction infected my working environment from the bottom up. No longer did I feel safe working beside those whom I cared for…
Read MoreJiggling and Flailing
I am not good enough. I can give you 50 reasons to back that up. My hips are too big. My hair just never seems to look right. My laundry room looks like a college dorm-room. It is simple to see that I am average. Not special in so many ways. For many years of…
Read MoreHe’s Sober, Now What?
He’s sober, now what? My loved one has been sober just shy of 5 years. It was a long journey to sobriety but we have arrived, for today. But, if I allow myself to be really honest, Lance being sober didn’t change everything like I had envisioned all those year. I spent so many years…
Read MoreLet Me Suffer
I get it. I know that opening this blog/email with the tingling anticipation to hear what wisdom Lance has to lay on you AND then realizing it’s not written by Lance… is a bummer. It’s how I feel when my church has a guest pastor. It’s just not quite the same. I get it, I…
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